I get to love me today ♡

by Jaclyn McCabe September 23, 2020




The words "woke up this morning with my mind set on loving me" caught my attention as they came through the speaker this morning. I've heard the song "Holy" by Jamila Woods countless times, and yet today, as I stepped out of the shower, I thought, "Oh yeah, that's right: no matter what, I get to love me today." 

Loving myself wholeheartedly starts with small daily choices. They are the foundation for fighting my negative thinking. Today, the choice I made was looking myself fully in the eye and sending gratitude and love to all my less-than-perfect bits. 

Thank you, tiny lines around my eyes. You show me the joy of laughter, I love you. 

Thank you, red, uneven skin. You show me all the women in my lineage, I love you. 

Thank you, grey hairs. You show me how far I've come, I love you. 

Because this is me, unfiltered, and as Jamila reminds me, "My cup is full up, what I got is enough."

Tell me how you are choosing to love yourself today. 

Jaclyn McCabe
Jaclyn McCabe


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Size Chart

Clothing Chart

How to Measure

Measure around your body under your arms and over the fullest part of your bust.

Measure around your body at your natural waistline. Keep the measuring tape comfortably loose.

Measure around the fullest part of your hips, placing the tape around midway between your crotch and belly button.

Take a pair of pants that fit you well and lay them flat. Measure the distance along the inner seam between the crotch and the hem.


Bra - How to Measure

Step 1: Measure your band size.

With your bra on, measure firmly around your rib cage, underneath your breast. The measuring tape should be parallel with the ground. Please reference chart below for band measurements.

Step 2: Measure your cup size.

With your bra on, measure the fullest part of your bust. This works best with a non-padded bra. Make sure the tape is taut and straight. 

Step 3: Calculate your bra size.

Subtract your band measurement from your cup measurement. Generally, for each inch in difference, the cup goes up by one size.
Range 29"–32" 33"–34" 35"–39" 39"–41" 42"–43" 44"–45"
Size 34 36 38 40 42 44


Step 1: 33" = 36 Band

Step 2: 38"

Step 3: 38" - 33" = 5", which is an E cup size in Prima Donna or DD in Elomi

Step 4: Refer to Sister size chart to see equivalent cup sizes by brand

All sizes are UK SIZE

Sister Size Chart

PrimaDonna Elomi

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